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bjorn, bjorn, bjorn...i know that i'm the last person you want to hear it from, but generally, women do not prefer skinny men. it's not really an outside issue, and i think that most people with any amount of intelligence recognize that. i've been duped before into thinking that someone acually liked me when they really just wanted to get me in bed. at first, i said, 'fucking body, why do you have to be all skinny and cultural whatever,' but then i realized that it's not the outside. hell, i've gained weight; there's plenty of girls skinnier than me now, but you know what, i still attract a good amount of people. some of them i find interesting and some i don't. i think that i, as a girl, might realize more when someone is interested because guys do have a tendency to be a little more obvious. so, you never know how many girls might be interested and for whatever reason, the message is not getting across. and let me say this, who ever these girls that are only interested in skinny guys are, they are obviously shallow. that's how it works. i'm not saying this as any sort of mightier-than-they (?) sort of thing, i've done it too, but really, honestly, think about it. maybe part of the problem is that you set other people up so often that you are constantly surrounded by people that are together and it gets a little bothersome. just remember this, though, no matter how lonely you feel when you're single, it's much worse if you're with someone you shouldn't be with...