Usually, this type of stuff is expressed by the seagoth chicks. "Skinny girls have ruined my life." I have to admit, I wasn't /that/ shocked to hear it from Bjorn but I did find it aggravating.
Bjorn, this attitude of yours is a sickness. Life doesn't revolve around your girth. It doesn't. And contrary to popular belief, the standards for male sexual beauty revolve much more around attitude and confidance than they do around appearance. Your using your appearance (which is NOT unseemly, btw) as a shield for your shortcomings due to low self worth. Yes, most of your troubles are due to low self worth.
Look at these "skinny boys" you so desperately envy. Ignore their bodies and look at how they act, how they carry themselves, and how they behave around women. THAT is why they get the dates, Bjorn. It isn't because they are built like rails, it's because they likely radiate confidance and confidance is attractive.
Now look at yourself honestly. You stoop, you tend to not look women in the eye and (as I've noticed) often appear to talk to their chests because you're probably avoiding eye contact, you're often shy and withdrawn around women you like, and don't project your full potential. All of these things have nothing to do with what waist size your pants are, rather they have to do with the fact that you display how little you must think of yourself. Body language is a large portion of attraction, not your dimensions.
Remember way back when I told you that you behaved like a female cat and you responded by saying in a whiny tone "My girlfriend said the same thing." There is something telling in that. Women love cats, and from what I can tell they dig on female cats a lot. But as companions and sort of friends. That is probably one of the reasons you have issues with women, Bjorn. Because you behave, often times, like one of the girls. And I'm not condemning you for it. That is you and I'm not trying to change you at all. However, I do resent being fingered as the cause for your suffering.
Re: the view from the other side
Usually, this type of stuff is expressed by the seagoth chicks. "Skinny girls have ruined my life." I have to admit, I wasn't /that/ shocked to hear it from Bjorn but I did find it aggravating.
Bjorn, this attitude of yours is a sickness. Life doesn't revolve around your girth. It doesn't. And contrary to popular belief, the standards for male sexual beauty revolve much more around attitude and confidance than they do around appearance. Your using your appearance (which is NOT unseemly, btw) as a shield for your shortcomings due to low self worth. Yes, most of your troubles are due to low self worth.
Look at these "skinny boys" you so desperately envy. Ignore their bodies and look at how they act, how they carry themselves, and how they behave around women. THAT is why they get the dates, Bjorn. It isn't because they are built like rails, it's because they likely radiate confidance and confidance is attractive.
Now look at yourself honestly. You stoop, you tend to not look women in the eye and (as I've noticed) often appear to talk to their chests because you're probably avoiding eye contact, you're often shy and withdrawn around women you like, and don't project your full potential. All of these things have nothing to do with what waist size your pants are, rather they have to do with the fact that you display how little you must think of yourself. Body language is a large portion of attraction, not your dimensions.
Remember way back when I told you that you behaved like a female cat and you responded by saying in a whiny tone "My girlfriend said the same thing." There is something telling in that. Women love cats, and from what I can tell they dig on female cats a lot. But as companions and sort of friends. That is probably one of the reasons you have issues with women, Bjorn. Because you behave, often times, like one of the girls. And I'm not condemning you for it. That is you and I'm not trying to change you at all. However, I do resent being fingered as the cause for your suffering.
Look to thine own eyes in most situations, Bjorn.