I linked over here from inevitabilitys journal. I think we've met, like once. And I remember thinking you were definitely humpable if it wasn't for all the whining. I agree with the James Gandolfini analysis.
It's pretty easy to blame it on other people. I spent a good deal of my life with a chip on my shoulder. I thought thin people hated me because I was fat. Guess what? They hated me because I was a bitch to them because I assumed they hated me. It's a vicious circle. Everyone has problems - especially finding love. And skinny people have just as many problems but its even harder for them because they don't get the excuse "I didn't get the promotion/date/etc because I'm fat", they have to find another reason.
Remember me?
It's pretty easy to blame it on other people. I spent a good deal of my life with a chip on my shoulder. I thought thin people hated me because I was fat. Guess what? They hated me because I was a bitch to them because I assumed they hated me. It's a vicious circle. Everyone has problems - especially finding love. And skinny people have just as many problems but its even harder for them because they don't get the excuse "I didn't get the promotion/date/etc because I'm fat", they have to find another reason.